“Didn’t I Warn You Not to Touch My Child?” – Billionaire’s Ex-Wife Samira Sheriff Sparks Drama With Explosive Deadbeat Father Accusation

Drama has once again rocked Nigeria’s high society after Samira Sheriff, the ex-wife of Maiduguri billionaire businessman Mohammed Indimi, took to Instagram with a fiery message that has set social media buzzing. Sheriff, mother of four daughters including popular socialites Adama and Meram Indimi, did not hold back as she addressed what she described as the hypocrisy and irresponsibility of a certain “deadbeat father.” In a bold and unapologetic post, she not only condemned narcissistic men who project the image of family men without fulfilling their responsibilities but also threw in a personal warning: “Didn’t I warn you not to touch my child?”

The incident unfolded on Saturday, September 13, after Samira Sheriff reposted a video by clinical psychologist Danish Bashir. The video delved into the traits of narcissistic men who crave the validation of having wives and children but never actually want to take on the responsibilities that come with fatherhood. Bashir’s words painted a vivid picture of men who parade themselves as devoted family men on social media but in reality, leave the heavy lifting of parenting to their wives.

“They crave the image, the validation, the social approval that comes with having a family but they reject the responsibilities, the emotional presence and the selflessness that those roles require,” Bashir explained in the clip. He continued with a scathing description: “They want to be seen as the man who has it all, the wife, the children, the home, but they do not want to show up as the man those people can actually count on. When it comes to fatherhood, the same pattern repeats. They love the idea of being dad, they like posting pictures with their kids, being praised for the most basic acts and using their children to validate their ego, but they do not want to do the work. They don’t want to be there for the sleepless nights, the hard conversations, the daily presence that real parenting requires.”

The psychologist’s remarks clearly struck a chord with Sheriff, who swiftly added her own cutting commentary. “Fake posting of your kids’ birthdays when you have no idea how or who they are. Sorry for your life. #deadbeat hahaha,” she wrote in her caption, firing shots that many followers interpreted as a direct jab at her ex-husband. The post did not stop there. In what seemed like a mix of warning and revelation, she added: “Or should I tag you? Didn’t I warn you not to touch my child?”

That final line ignited an uproar. Followers flooded her comment section, dissecting the cryptic but sharp words. While some argued she was simply venting against the general trend of absentee fathers, others insisted it was a very personal shot aimed directly at the billionaire businessman, given the long history of tension between the former couple. Sheriff’s words carried a raw emotional weight that could hardly be ignored, especially considering her status as the mother of some of Nigeria’s most prominent society figures.

Social media users were quick to add their voices to the unfolding saga. On Linda Ikeji’s Blog, where the story was shared, comments came pouring in, reflecting a spectrum of opinions. One anonymous user bluntly dismissed the issue, writing, “A billionaire daughter who condones domestic violence enjoys it. Nothing concern me abeg.” Another took a more philosophical route, warning that wealth often comes with its own curse. “Believe it or not, one is keeping a stable marriage. Charlie Sheen’s ex-wife couldn’t put it more gracefully. The more success he got, the more distant he got. Money is the root of all evil… wealth has many sides. The best situation is have enough to handle basic life needs and live well.”

Others, however, zoomed in on the topic of fatherhood itself. A commenter under the name Real Tony shared a deeply personal experience of raising a child under tough circumstances: “When I had my daughter, I was just a private school teacher that earns 23k. My babymama had no job, no support from family or savings. That didn’t make me fidget and run away. I stood my ground that my child has come to this world, and I must take full responsibility. With just 30k savings, I catered for her and her mom. It hasn’t been easy, but I sacrificed a lot. You can’t be a father when you are not ready to sacrifice a LOT.” His words stood as a direct contrast to the image of “deadbeat fathers” that Sheriff had so angrily condemned.

Others took a harsher stance against women, accusing them of double standards when it comes to choosing partners. A user identified as D Gov’nor argued: “But that’s the type of men women prefer. If you’re a loving, caring, and perfect gentleman who loves his family and is always available, your wife will take that for a ride. Most women prefer men that pretend, lie, are unavailable at home, not caring, etc., so long as there’s money. Gen Z prefers money to peace of mind.”

This divide in opinion highlighted the broader societal conversation sparked by Sheriff’s outburst. On one hand, her post resonated with women and children who have suffered from absentee fathers who play the role of family man only on social media. On the other hand, it reopened the debate about women’s own role in choosing partners and whether financial comfort often blinds them to deeper character flaws.

Sheriff’s words also reignited curiosity about her long and tumultuous past with Mohammed Indimi, one of Nigeria’s wealthiest men. Though the two parted ways years ago, their children remain deeply embedded in the country’s elite social circles, with daughters Adama and Meram often in the spotlight. This makes any public declaration by Sheriff not only personal but also highly publicized, given the family’s influence and visibility.

Her warning, “Didn’t I warn you not to touch my child?” carried a mysterious undertone that left followers speculating whether it referred to a specific incident involving one of their children or whether it was a metaphorical warning about crossing boundaries in their parental responsibilities. Either way, the statement added fuel to an already blazing fire, ensuring the story remained at the center of social media conversation throughout the weekend.

At its core, the drama exposes a deeper societal issue beyond one family’s feud. It highlights the ongoing problem of absentee fathers, especially in cultures where societal pressure often elevates the image of fatherhood above the actual practice of it. Many men enjoy the applause that comes with appearing like devoted dads, but as Sheriff and Bashir both pointed out, true fatherhood is less about public validation and more about private sacrifices—the kind that never make it to Instagram.

As the dust continues to settle on Sheriff’s post, one thing is clear: her words have struck a nerve. Whether aimed squarely at her ex-husband or more generally at men who shirk their responsibilities, she has reignited a national conversation about parenting, responsibility, and the dangers of image-driven fatherhood. For now, the online community remains divided, with some applauding her courage for speaking out and others accusing her of washing family linen in public. But one cannot deny that her message—sharp, unapologetic, and emotionally charged—has put the spotlight firmly back on the hidden wounds of families torn apart by narcissism and neglect.