
A Nigerian lady has shared a jaw-dropping experience online that has left many stunned and sparked a wider conversation about boundaries, hygiene, and respect in shared living spaces. After completing her National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) program, a young woman returned to the room she shares with a roommate, only to discover it had been turned into something she described as nothing short of a “disaster zone.” The once organized and livable space had been transformed into what looked like a neglected dump — her bed was turned upside down, clothes were scattered everywhere, and, to her utter disbelief, cooking utensils had been brought into the room, as if it had become a makeshift kitchen.
In a video that has since gone viral on social media platforms, the lady gave a full visual tour of the chaotic space. Her voice trembled with a mix of shock, anger, and disbelief as she narrated what she found. From her mattress flipped over for no apparent reason, to pots and pans strewn around with traces of food still clinging to their surfaces, the room bore little resemblance to the tidy environment she had left months ago. Empty food containers, used plates, spilled condiments, and wrappers covered the floor, while a noticeable stench reportedly filled the air. According to her, it was like walking into a horror movie set.
“This is not the room I left,” she exclaimed in the clip, visibly emotional. “How can someone live like this? She turned this place into a jungle. I can’t even sit down. I don’t know where to start from.”
The roommate in question, whose identity hasn’t been disclosed, was apparently still occupying the room at the time the lady returned. However, instead of offering any explanation or apology, she reportedly seemed unbothered by the state of the room and continued her activities as if everything was perfectly normal. That part of the story infuriated many viewers, who took to the comments section to express their disgust and disapproval.
“How can you bring stove and pot into a bedroom and start cooking like you’re in the village?” one commenter asked. “This is not just dirty, it’s disrespectful and unsafe.”
Another user wrote, “This is why I can’t do shared apartments. Some people were not raised right. This is beyond messy — it’s pure wickedness.”
Shared accommodations are often considered an economical and practical solution for students, corps members, and young workers, especially in bustling cities where rent can be extremely expensive. But this incident underscores the potential dangers of cohabitating with people who do not share the same values or standards of living. What was meant to be a temporary and affordable housing solution quickly turned into a mental and emotional nightmare for the returning NYSC member.
Those who have gone through similar ordeals began sharing their own horror stories in the replies, creating a cascade of online testimonies. “I once had a roommate who wouldn’t flush the toilet and used to leave fish bones on the floor,” one person shared. “Another one cooked beans in the room and poured the water on the carpet. I had to leave before I lost my mind.”
The incident also sparked a deeper discussion on the importance of background checks, compatibility, and clear rules when it comes to sharing a room or flat. While some users advocated for more leniency and communication between roommates, others were firm in their stance that once a person exhibits signs of being unclean or lacking regard for shared property, the only option is to separate living arrangements immediately.
Adding another layer to the debate, health experts weighed in through commentaries shared by media blogs, warning that such living conditions are not just visually offensive but also potentially dangerous. Cooking in an enclosed bedroom increases the risk of fire hazards, while poor hygiene can attract pests, contribute to respiratory problems, and spread infectious diseases. “A living space that is both a kitchen and a bedroom, especially without proper ventilation, is a ticking health time bomb,” one Lagos-based environmental health officer said in a trending clip.
The NYSC member revealed that she had taken time before her deployment to thoroughly clean and organize the room, including setting up personal decorations and buying new bedding. Her return to the current state of chaos felt like a violation of her effort, her comfort, and her trust. In a follow-up post, she mentioned she was still in shock and didn’t even know where to begin — whether to confront her roommate directly or just pack up and look for a new place to stay.
Many supporters have encouraged her to stand her ground and demand accountability. “It’s not just about cleaning the room,” one social media user posted. “This is about standing up for yourself. You’re not overreacting. Your space was violated and you have every right to be angry.”
Some commenters even offered assistance, including free cleaning help or temporary accommodation, highlighting a sense of community and solidarity among those who understood the emotional impact of such an experience.
As the video continues to circulate, amassing thousands of views and reactions, it serves as a cautionary tale for anyone considering shared living arrangements. It’s a reminder that sharing a roof with someone requires more than just splitting bills — it demands mutual respect, communication, and a baseline of decency.
In the meantime, the NYSC returnee is still processing the extent of the damage and deciding her next steps. Whether she chooses to clean up, move out, or escalate the matter to authorities or landlords, one thing is clear: her trust has been broken, and it will take time — and a whole lot of disinfectant — to recover from the ordeal.
For those who watched the clip and shuddered, perhaps it’s time to double-check who you’re sharing your space with. Because sometimes, the real horror story isn’t what happens outside your door — it’s what’s waiting for you when you come back home.
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Lady shares shocking state of her room she shares with her roommate after returning from NYSC service. pic.twitter.com/zGHlAczdOO
— YabaLeftOnline (@yabaleftonline) June 11, 2025