"I Love You but Please Don’t Touch Me Without Consent" — Skitmaker Meshkiey Speaks Out After Uncomfortable Encounter at Tacha’s Guinness World Record Finale

Nigerian skitmaker and content creator, Meshkiey, has stirred an important conversation online after sharing his discomfort over being randomly touched and hugged by two female fans during Tacha’s Guinness World Record attempt finale. The comedian took to his X (formerly Twitter) account to express how uneasy the encounters made him feel, while appealing to fans to respect personal boundaries and consent regardless of admiration or excitement.

In his post, Meshkiey explained that he had attended the finale event to support Tacha and witness the much-talked-about Guinness World Record attempt. However, the evening took an uncomfortable turn when two different ladies hugged him unexpectedly, one even going as far as grabbing his arm while trying to engage him in a conversation he didn’t understand. According to the skitmaker, he found the situation quite disturbing but chose to “play it cool” in the moment to avoid creating a scene.

“Last night at Tacha's Guinness world record attempt finale, two ladies randomly hugged me at two separate times, and I wasn’t comfortable with that at all,” he wrote. “But I had to play it cool. I don’t think that’s a cool thing to do though. I barely even think handshakes with everybody and anybody are okay. Then hugs?”

He went on to narrate how one of the ladies even went further by grabbing his arm, making him feel increasingly uncomfortable. “Someone (a lady) even grabbed me by my arm and that made me very uncomfortable. Had to force my way out of her hand because she was beginning to say stuff I didn’t understand,” Meshkiey added.

The comedian then appealed to his fans to be more mindful of boundaries when meeting public figures, emphasizing that consent should always come first in any form of physical contact. “Let’s not be razz now. Please, there are several other comported ways to go about these. I love you, but please don’t startle me or touch me weirdly without consent. This should be really sensitive,” he cautioned.

His post has since gained wide attention online, sparking a wave of discussions about personal space, respect, and double standards when it comes to consent — especially between male celebrities and female fans. While many social media users applauded Meshkiey for speaking up about an issue often overlooked, others argued that he might have been “overreacting” or reading too much into innocent gestures from excited fans.

However, a large portion of the online community sided with the skitmaker, praising his maturity and self-control during the encounter. Many fans agreed that it is inappropriate to touch or hug anyone — celebrity or not — without their permission, regardless of gender. “You’re absolutely right, bro. People need to understand boundaries. Consent is not just a women’s issue; it’s for everyone,” one X user commented. Another added, “If it was the other way around, people would be shouting harassment. So yes, you did the right thing by speaking up.”

Meshkiey’s statement also highlights a growing awareness in the Nigerian entertainment industry about personal space and consent, especially as celebrities continue to interact more closely with fans in public spaces. Over the years, there have been multiple instances where fans, out of excitement or admiration, have crossed physical boundaries with their favorite stars — sometimes leading to awkward or even unsafe situations.

By bringing up this issue, Meshkiey has joined the list of public figures advocating for respect and mindfulness in fan interactions. His words also underline the importance of mutual respect and understanding in social spaces, where admiration should never translate into invasion of privacy.

In a culture where physical greetings like hugs and handshakes are common expressions of affection, Meshkiey’s post serves as a reminder that not everyone is comfortable with such gestures. Personal boundaries vary from person to person, and it’s essential to read the room or simply ask before engaging in any physical contact.

Interestingly, the comedian’s message wasn’t confrontational; rather, it carried a polite but firm tone. He emphasized love and appreciation for his fans but insisted that respect and consent must always come first. “I love you, but please don’t startle me or touch me weirdly without consent,” he reiterated in his tweet, adding humor at the end by asking, “Or what do you guys think? Am I overreacting? lol.”

His closing question seemed to invite conversation rather than conflict, encouraging his audience to reflect on how normal some invasive behaviors have become in fan culture. Many appreciated the humility and clarity in his message, noting that it takes courage for male celebrities to speak up about such issues without fear of being misunderstood.

Some commentators also pointed out that the public often downplays the discomfort men feel in situations involving unwanted touch or attention from women, assuming they should always be fine with it. Meshkiey’s openness, therefore, not only shed light on a personal experience but also challenged that stereotype, reminding people that everyone, regardless of gender, deserves respect and the right to consent.

The incident at Tacha’s Guinness World Record finale also reignited a larger discussion about how fans behave around celebrities at events. While excitement is understandable, several netizens suggested that fans should be taught or reminded about proper decorum when interacting with public figures. “Being a fan doesn’t mean you own access to their bodies,” one user wrote. “Even celebrities need space; they’re human too.”

As the post continues to circulate, many are commending Meshkiey for choosing to address the situation publicly yet respectfully, using it as a teachable moment rather than an opportunity to shame anyone. His approach reflects emotional intelligence and a commitment to fostering a culture of consent and respect within and beyond the entertainment industry.

In recent years, conversations about consent have expanded beyond intimate relationships to include everyday interactions such as greetings, friendly gestures, and fan-celebrity encounters. Meshkiey’s statement underscores the fact that everyone, regardless of fame or gender, has the right to decide who touches them and when.

For many of his followers, this bold but calm message further elevated their respect for him as not just a comedian but also a socially conscious figure who uses his platform to promote decency and awareness. The skitmaker’s message may have come from an awkward personal moment, but it now stands as a broader reminder about boundaries, respect, and the need to normalize asking for consent.

While the debate continues online, one thing is clear: Meshkiey’s experience has opened up a necessary conversation in Nigerian entertainment and fan culture — a conversation that emphasizes empathy, understanding, and personal space. Whether or not everyone agrees with his feelings, his words echo a universal truth — that love and admiration should never come at the expense of someone’s comfort.

As one of his fans aptly put it under the viral post, “You’re not overreacting. You’re simply reminding people that respect is the highest form of love.”