Ice Prince Sparks Conversation on Marriage Crisis as He Reveals Newlywed Friend Already Wants Out

Nigerian rapper Ice Prince has set social media buzzing after opening up about his growing fear of marriage, triggered by the struggles of a close friend who tied the knot barely a year ago. The rapper, known for his calm demeanour and reflective takes on relationships, took to social media to express worry over the rising trend of marital instability among young couples, especially men approaching their 40s.

In a candid post that immediately gained widespread engagement, Ice Prince wrote that the stories surrounding marriage these days are becoming increasingly frightening. According to him, the pressure, the expectations, and the reality behind closed doors are not aligning with the fairy-tale ideals many people grew up imagining. But what truly unsettled him was the case of a friend who got married in 2024 and is already considering divorce. The rapper revealed that the man has stopped answering his wife’s calls and is desperately seeking an exit barely months into the union, raising fresh questions about the state of modern marriages.

“These days na everyday dem dey scare us about this marriage union of a thing… My guy wey just marry 2024 no dey answer wife call again and wants out,” Ice Prince lamented. For many, the statement hit close to home as it echoed the private realities of numerous couples who struggle silently behind the façade of wedding glam and social media-perfect love stories.

Ice Prince did not stop there. Turning his attention to unmarried men—particularly those creeping toward their 40s—he fired a thought-provoking question: “Yo single fellas approaching 40, Wagwan?! Pls what’s the update these days?! What we doing?!” His message seemed to cut through the noise, striking a nerve among men who feel societal pressure to marry at a certain age while also dealing with an avalanche of cautionary tales about failed unions.

But beyond expressing fear and confusion, Ice Prince offered a piece of advice that has resonated with thousands: self-reflection before commitment. He urged men to look inward, evaluate themselves, and be certain about their readiness before declaring love and promising lifelong leadership in a woman’s life. In his words, “My brother check yourself properly before you tell person daughter or another man sister say you want to be the head coach in her life oo. Cleanse yourself first, look yourself well and tell yourself the truth first my brother.”

His statement carries undertones of accountability—something critics say is often missing in discussions about marriage troubles. According to Ice Prince, many men want the title of “head of the home” but have not taken time to address personal flaws, emotional immaturity, career instability, communication issues, or even their own unprocessed traumas. To him, marriage is not merely about love or societal expectation, but about responsibility, character, and mental preparedness.

The conversation around his post has since expanded, drawing mixed reactions from fans, critics, and relationship commentators. Some agreed with the rapper, noting that the increasing rate of divorce in Nigeria and beyond shows a deeper issue—people entering marriages unprepared or for the wrong reasons. They argue that social media has created unrealistic expectations, pushing people into relationships that crumble as soon as pressure mounts. Others blame economic hardship, which is putting unprecedented strain on marriages, with many couples unable to navigate financial stress.

On the other hand, some respondents suggested that women also have their share of responsibility in marital issues. They argued that Ice Prince’s message seemed to place the burden primarily on men, even though both genders contribute to the success or failure of a marriage. A few commenters went further, claiming that the dating scene has become complicated, with trust issues, entitlement, and diminishing patience, making long-term commitment increasingly difficult.

Still, Ice Prince’s insight into the emotional turmoil of his newlywed friend paints a picture that many people know all too well. The honeymoon phase, often glamorized, can quickly give way to harsh reality when expectations clash with the real personalities, habits, and demands of daily partnership. For a man to consider divorce so early suggests a serious breakdown—either in compatibility, communication, or personal readiness.

Marriage counsellors who reacted to the discussion have highlighted the importance of premarital counseling, honest conversations about expectations, emotional maturity, and understanding the weight of commitment. According to them, getting married simply because “time is running out” or because of societal pressure is one of the biggest mistakes people make. Ice Prince’s warning to men approaching 40 aligns with this sentiment, reminding them that marriage requires more than age or desire—it requires intentional preparation.

Interestingly, Ice Prince’s vulnerability in expressing fear about marriage is something many men rarely do publicly. In a culture where men are taught to suppress emotions and exude confidence, openly admitting uncertainty about marriage takes courage. His message gives voice to a silent population of men who feel pressured but afraid—men who want companionship but fear making the wrong choice, men who want a family but dread becoming another statistic in the growing wave of unhappy marriages and early divorces.

As the discussion continues to evolve online, one thing stands out: modern relationships are undergoing a shift. The complexities surrounding love, marriage, and partnerships are more visible than ever. Public figures like Ice Prince sharing their fears not only humanize them but also spark necessary conversations about readiness, responsibility, and the future of marriage.

Whether his friend’s situation will improve remains unknown, but Ice Prince’s post has already served its purpose—igniting a thought-provoking debate about the realities of marriage in today’s world. His call for introspection serves as a timely reminder in an era where people are often more prepared for weddings than actual marriages.

For many, the takeaway is clear: love alone is not enough. Commitment requires clarity, self-awareness, maturity, and intentional effort from both partners. And as Ice Prince’s message suggests, before stepping into a lifelong union, perhaps the most important question anyone can ask is not “Am I ready to marry?” but “Am I ready to be responsible, patient, honest, and accountable?”

It is a conversation that Nigeria—and indeed the world—seems more than ready to have.