“If He’s in the Comments, He’s in Trouble”: Bobrisky Drops Blistering List of Male Red Flags on Social Media

In a classic Bobrisky-style tell-it-like-it-is moment, Nigerian internet sensation and self-proclaimed “Mummy of Lagos,” Bobrisky, has sent social media into a frenzy with a brutally honest PSA directed at women everywhere. Known for controversy, charisma, and a fierce sense of fashion, Bobrisky isn’t new to speaking her mind—but this time, it’s not just about wigs, wealth, or waist-snatching dresses. It’s about men, their digital habits, and the subtle signs that spell danger for any woman looking for love.

In an Instagram story that’s gone viral faster than a Davido hit, Bobrisky didn’t hold back. With bold font, biting tone, and a sprinkle of her usual sass, she laid out what she considers non-negotiable red flags women should never ignore when it comes to men in the digital age. The message? Watch not just what he says, but where he says it—and who he follows while he's at it.

“Men that drop comment on blogs is a red flag,” she began, igniting immediate buzz across platforms. While it might seem harmless for men to engage in online banter, Bobrisky suggests it’s a deeper issue. According to her, a man too eager to publicly weigh in on gossip and trending issues might not be the secure, focused partner women deserve. The implication? Real men move in silence, not in blog comment sections.

But that was just the warm-up. She didn’t stop at comments—she went for the algorithm next. “Men that follow gossip blog is a red flag,” she continued. In a world where everyone wants to stay updated on celebrity drama and influencer showdowns, Bobrisky's take challenges women to reconsider what it means when a man’s feed is filled with shade, scandal, and soft sells. Her advice: If his primary media diet is gossip, he might bring more drama than stability into your life.

Then came a shot straight at Instagram habits that many women may have silently observed but hesitated to call out. “Men that follow too many women on Instagram is a red flag.” According to Bobrisky, this isn't just a numbers game—it’s about intent, attention, and loyalty. To her, a man obsessed with scrolling through endless selfies, stories, and reels of women he doesn’t know personally might lack the focus and discipline a serious relationship demands. It’s less about jealousy and more about judgment—if he’s always distracted by the next pretty face, how can he prioritize you?

If that wasn't specific enough, Bobrisky zoomed in even further: “Men that like too many women picture is a red flag.” She’s not talking about the occasional double-tap here—this is about the chronic ‘likers,’ the men whose thumbs are more faithful than their hearts. To Bobrisky, this is a sign of wandering eyes and even more wandering minds. It’s not about policing behavior, she seems to say—it’s about observing patterns and understanding what they might indicate. If his idea of support is uplifting every woman online except the one he’s with, you may want to ask questions.

But then, just when it seemed like her rant was all about social media habits, Bobrisky pulled the mask off one of the biggest relationship landmines, in her opinion: “The worst of all, broke men is a disaster.” In typical Bobrisky fashion, the sentence is blunt, inflammatory, and unapologetically classist. But whether you agree with her or not, it’s clear she believes financial instability brings with it emotional instability—and more often than not, chaos. To her, love without resources isn’t love—it’s a liability. While her critics will argue that wealth doesn't equal character, Bobrisky has long maintained that money is foundational in building respect and order in a relationship.

Capping her statement with “Ladies… ire o,” a Yoruba phrase loosely meaning “good luck” or “wishing you well,” Bobrisky underscored the gravity of her message with a cheeky nod. She’s given the warning signs, she’s issued the guide—it’s up to women to take heed. In her view, dating in this era is a battlefield, and awareness is the first line of defense.

Unsurprisingly, the internet had a lot to say. Her supporters praised her for voicing truths many are too shy to admit. “She’s speaking facts,” one follower commented. “Too many women ignore these signs and then complain later.” Others saw her words as unnecessarily judgmental, painting all men with the same brush and fostering unrealistic expectations. Some critics even argued that the focus should be on character and communication, not Instagram activity.

But that’s the thing about Bobrisky—she’s not here to be palatable. She’s here to shake tables, and shake them she did. Whether you love her or love to hate her, you can’t ignore her impact. From makeup tutorials to motivational rants, from her controversial lifestyle to her unfiltered opinions, she knows how to command attention. And this latest post is proof that she understands the modern dating landscape just as well as she understands social media dynamics.

In a time when digital behavior often reveals more than in-person words, Bobrisky’s checklist hits close to home. With relationships increasingly forming and falling apart online, perhaps she's right to scrutinize how men behave in the digital world. Is he too involved in celebrity drama? Too friendly with strangers on Instagram? Too vocal where silence is golden? According to Bobrisky, these aren’t quirks—they’re warnings.

While not everyone will agree with the harsh tone or sweeping generalizations, her message opens up an important conversation. As dating continues to evolve, so too must the red flags we look out for. Bobrisky, in her ever-theatrical, ever-dramatic style, has simply taken the liberty of listing hers loud and clear.

One thing is certain: the next time a woman checks her partner’s social media activity, Bobrisky’s voice might echo in her mind. Whether that voice warns or reassures, well… that depends on what she finds.