"I’m Not the First Lady, I’m the Fourth!" – Portable’s Babymama, Ashabi, Sparks Reactions with Candid Correction

In a moment that left many stunned and others chuckling, Nollywood actress and singer Ashabi Simple, one of the baby mamas of controversial Nigerian street-hop artist Habeeb Okikiola, popularly known as Portable, firmly corrected a reporter during an interview after being addressed as "the First Lady." Her response? A direct and unapologetic “I’m not the First Lady, I’m the Fourth Lady,” setting social media ablaze with comments, opinions, and debates over her unexpected honesty.

The incident occurred during a media interaction at a recent event where Ashabi was approached by entertainment journalists for a brief red-carpet interview. One of the reporters, perhaps in a bid to be respectful or simply misinformed, referred to her as Portable’s "First Lady" – a title traditionally used to denote the primary or legally recognized wife in polygamous relationships. But Ashabi, with a calm demeanor and a slight smile, interjected without missing a beat.

“I’m not the First Lady,” she said. “I’m the Fourth Lady.”

The air around the red carpet seemed to shift in that moment as those nearby digested her words. The reporter, clearly taken aback, quickly attempted to steer the conversation forward, but the internet had already caught wind of the exchange. Within hours, clips from the interview began circulating across Instagram, TikTok, and X (formerly Twitter), triggering thousands of reactions from fans, critics, feminists, and relationship commentators.

Ashabi’s statement may have been brief, but it opened the floodgates to conversations surrounding modern-day polygamy, self-awareness, and the realities of romantic entanglements with controversial public figures like Portable. The singer, notorious for his turbulent lifestyle, social media drama, and complex love life, has been linked to several women and currently fathers multiple children with different women. The openness with which Ashabi acknowledged her position in his life hierarchy struck many as both bold and unusual, especially in a society where many women tend to avoid public labels that suggest they are "one of many."

Netizens were quick to express a wide range of opinions. While some praised Ashabi’s honesty, others criticized her for "settling" for such a position. “At least she knows her place,” one user commented under a popular gossip blog’s post. “No pretense, no lies. I respect it.” Another user wrote, “Ladies, don’t ever be proud to be fourth anything. Value yourself.”

Despite the controversy, Ashabi herself seemed unfazed. Later that day, she posted a stunning photo of herself on Instagram, captioned simply: “No title needed, I know who I am.” Her comment section was a battlefield of opposing views, with some encouraging her confidence and others urging her to walk away from the chaotic relationship.

Ashabi has always been open about her love for Portable, despite the complexities that come with it. In past interviews, she admitted that she knew what she was walking into but chose to stay because of love, commitment, and a child they now share. “I met him with two women,” she once said. “I knew about them. I didn’t enter with my eyes closed.”

For many, this latest episode reaffirms just how unconventional Portable’s love life is – a mix of tradition, street-style relationships, and Gen Z openness. Portable himself has never shied away from posting about his various partners and children. At one point, he publicly announced the arrival of another child with a different woman, barely weeks after celebrating Ashabi’s birthday.

What stands out, however, is how each woman in Portable’s life seems to occupy her own space, with different levels of public recognition. While some prefer to remain lowkey, others, like Ashabi, have carved out identities for themselves beyond being a baby mama. Ashabi continues to pursue her acting career, has dabbled in music, and occasionally engages her fans through content creation and live interactions.

Yet, the conversation sparked by her “Fourth Lady” statement refuses to die down. Relationship therapists, culture critics, and influencers have all taken turns analyzing what it means for a woman to embrace such a label. Is it empowering to accept one’s reality without shame? Or is it a reflection of a deeper societal issue where women are made to compete for the attention of one man, regardless of how many others he has?

A prominent feminist voice on X weighed in, writing: “There’s nothing brave about being number four. Women deserve loyalty, respect, and exclusivity. But society has made some women believe crumbs are a feast.” On the other hand, a more liberal voice responded, “She’s not asking for your validation. Let her define her happiness on her own terms.”

Portable himself has not made any official statement regarding Ashabi’s interview. True to form, he instead posted a cryptic video of himself singing about loyalty, trust, and betrayal, leaving fans to guess if it was in response to the ongoing buzz. As expected, the comment section was flooded with references to Ashabi’s “Fourth Lady” comment, with some fans begging him to “do right” by her.

The Nigerian entertainment industry, especially the realm of celebrities with multiple partners, is no stranger to public revelations like this. However, what made Ashabi’s comment so unique is the mix of clarity, self-awareness, and lack of pretense she displayed. In a world where many try to cover the truth with vague captions and subliminal shots, Ashabi chose brutal honesty.

Whether or not that honesty will cost her in the court of public opinion remains to be seen. But one thing is certain: she has now become a symbol of modern-day realities in complicated relationships – realities where hierarchy, status, and emotional transparency are no longer whispered in the dark but boldly declared on camera.

As fans continue to debate and dissect her words, Ashabi remains in the spotlight – not as Portable’s First Lady, but as the woman who wasn’t afraid to tell the world she’s his Fourth. And in a world where everyone is trying to appear as number one, her candor might just be what sets her apart.