“Keep My Daughter Out of Your Affairs!” – Iyabo Ojo Fires Back at Tanzanian Media Personality Over Priscilla Ojo Remarks

In a fiery exchange that has reverberated across social media platforms in Africa and the diaspora, popular Nigerian actress and activist Iyabo Ojo has publicly slammed Tanzanian media personality Mange Kimambi over disparaging comments allegedly directed at her daughter, Priscilla Ojo, and her husband. The confrontation, which has quickly become a trending topic, highlights not just the growing tension between celebrity culture and media scrutiny, but also the fierce protective instincts of a mother unwilling to watch her child be targeted by online vitriol.

Iyabo Ojo, a widely respected Nollywood figure known for her outspoken nature and strong moral stance, did not hold back in her response to what she called an appalling attempt at intimidation and public shaming. In a bold and impassioned statement posted on social media, the actress issued a stern warning to Kimambi, stating, “Keep my daughter out of your affairs.” The post, which has since garnered thousands of reactions and comments, was a direct reaction to Kimambi’s criticism of content shared by Priscilla and her husband, which the Tanzanian personality allegedly labeled as “stupid.”

“I’m appalled by your audacity,” Iyabo Ojo wrote, clearly incensed by the remarks made about her daughter and son-in-law. “Referring to my daughter and her husband in such a manner, calling their content stupid, trying to drum fear and intimidation—this is unacceptable.”

For Ojo, who has long worn her identity as both a public figure and a fiercely devoted mother with pride, the attack on her family crossed a line. She emphasized that her daughter, who is a fashion entrepreneur and influencer, was raised to be confident and authentic, and that no amount of online bullying or unsolicited judgment would change that.

“As a parent, I’ve taught her to be confident and authentic,” she wrote, before adding pointedly, “The Mkambala are very peaceful, but note—I don’t joke with my daughter.”

The reference to the Mkambala clan appeared to be a nod to her daughter's husband's Tanzanian heritage, subtly suggesting unity between the Nigerian and Tanzanian families involved—despite outside commentary. The actress further addressed recent rumors surrounding the couple’s wedding, clarifying that the event, which had drawn the public's attention and speculation, was in line with her family’s traditions and not influenced or funded by any governmental bodies, as had been suggested.

“Regarding the wedding rumors, it’s not your government who gave us money, it’s a cultural tradition in my family. The wife’s family covers costs. I wanted an elaborate wedding for my daughter in Nigeria and we, the Nigerians, gave her one,” Ojo stated, silencing conjecture with a composed but firm rebuttal.

The actress’s post did not merely defend her daughter; it also touched on broader themes of integrity, leadership, and cultural respect. Known for her activism and advocacy for women's rights and youth empowerment in Nigeria, Ojo underscored her values once more, writing, “I’m an activist, and as one, I stand by my principles and fight for what I believe in, without insulting anyone or targeting anyone. True leadership requires presence and courage.”

That line, though not directly aimed, served as a clear counter to Kimambi’s approach, which Ojo seemed to consider both intrusive and unnecessarily combative. The Nigerian actress didn’t hesitate to call out what she perceived as arrogance and overreach from Kimambi, who currently resides in the United States.

“It’s laughable that you, living in America, think you can dictate to my daughter and her husband, who are living their lives in Tanzania,” she wrote, highlighting what many commentators are calling an important reminder about boundaries and the limitations of external influence on private lives.

The final portion of Ojo’s message was perhaps the most personal and powerful. With maternal conviction, she drew a line in the sand and reminded the world—particularly her daughter’s critics—that Priscilla is not only loved but fiercely protected.

“Keep my daughter out of your affairs. She’ll post what she likes, when she likes, and how she likes. She doesn’t need you to love her. She is very loved and well loved. We protect our own… Never forget that.”

The hashtag #temporarypost appended to her message suggests the actress might eventually take down the statement, but the impact is already resounding. Within hours, social media platforms, particularly Instagram and X (formerly Twitter), were flooded with support for Ojo, with many praising her unapologetic stance and echoing the sentiment that public figures have every right to defend their families from what they perceive as unjust scrutiny.

This unfolding drama also raises important questions about the line between media commentary and cyberbullying, especially in an era where influencers and media personalities often collide in the same digital arenas. It spotlights the emotional toll such exchanges can take on the individuals involved—particularly younger figures like Priscilla Ojo, who, despite being in the public eye, is still navigating the complexities of adulthood, marriage, and public perception.

Critics of Mange Kimambi argue that her comments were out of place and uncalled for, especially in matters concerning a young couple’s personal life. Others, however, defend her right to express opinions on public content, albeit with more sensitivity and caution. Yet the consensus among many fans and followers appears to lean toward support for Iyabo Ojo’s response, seeing it as both a dignified defense and a necessary boundary-setting moment.

As of now, Mange Kimambi has not issued a formal response to Iyabo Ojo’s viral post. But the silence, some observers speculate, may speak volumes. For Iyabo Ojo, however, the message is crystal clear: her daughter’s peace, privacy, and dignity are not up for public debate. And for anyone tempted to cross that line, she’s made it evident—there will be consequences.

In a digital age where clout chasing, unsolicited opinions, and media sensationalism often blur the lines of respect and decency, Iyabo Ojo's message resounds as a clarion call to re-evaluate how we speak about others, especially those who have done nothing but live their truth unapologetically.

One thing is certain: in Iyabo Ojo’s world, family is sacred—and she’ll protect hers at all costs.