
Controversial Nigerian crossdresser and social media sensation, Bobrisky, has once again set tongues wagging, this time not for a daring fashion choice or online spat, but for what he describes as the most life-changing decision he’s ever made—leaving Nigeria. In a bold and unapologetic declaration shared across his social media platforms, the self-proclaimed “Mummy of Lagos” announced that relocating out of the country was not just a personal milestone, but a game-changer that has elevated his life, appearance, and peace of mind.
“The best decision I ever made for myself is leaving Nigeria,” Bobrisky stated, adding that fans who miss him can simply “get themselves a visa” if they want to see him again. The statement, while laced with typical Bobrisky flair, has stirred a storm of reactions online, reigniting conversations around the socio-political challenges in Nigeria, the struggles of the LGBTQ+ community, and the broader realities of self-expression in a deeply conservative environment.
Bobrisky, whose real name is Okuneye Idris Olanrewaju, is no stranger to controversy. For years, he has defied societal expectations, challenged traditional norms, and courted criticism with the same ease with which he garners admiration. But this latest revelation feels like a turning point—less about provocation and more about personal emancipation. From his posts, it is clear that leaving Nigeria was more than a physical relocation; it was an emotional and psychological rebirth. “Y’all need to see me, damn I look so fresh,” he wrote in a follow-up post, flaunting photos and videos that showcased his glowing skin, designer fits, and what appears to be a more relaxed, luxurious lifestyle.
Fans and critics alike have not held back in sharing their thoughts. Some applauded Bobrisky’s decision, seeing it as a brave move to reclaim his narrative and protect his peace in a country where non-conformity often comes with a heavy price. Others, however, were quick to criticize the post, calling it arrogant and insensitive to the millions of Nigerians who do not have the privilege or financial capacity to “get themselves a visa.” As always, Bobrisky remained unbothered, basking in the limelight of his newfound tranquility.
For many, Bobrisky's exit is not surprising. Nigeria’s deeply rooted cultural and religious values often leave little room for gender fluidity or LGBTQ+ identities to exist openly, much less thrive. Despite his popularity and massive following, Bobrisky has been a constant target of moral policing, harassment, and ridicule. The choice to leave, therefore, appears to be a carefully calculated move to escape the scrutiny and live more authentically, without fear of institutional or social persecution.
Beyond the glitter and glam, Bobrisky’s post has also opened up serious discourse on the state of mental health and self-acceptance in Nigeria. His words resonate with a growing demographic of young Nigerians who feel stifled by the country’s socio-economic and cultural climate. The hunger for freedom—whether of speech, identity, or career choice—has never been louder. And for those who view Bobrisky as more than just an internet personality, his move represents a powerful act of resistance against the limitations of geography and tradition.
Still, not everyone is buying the dream. Detractors argue that Bobrisky’s depiction of life abroad is overly glamorized and fails to acknowledge the struggles that many Nigerians face even after relocating. They caution fans not to mistake social media highlight reels for reality, warning that leaving Nigeria, while liberating for some, is not a guaranteed ticket to happiness. But for Bobrisky, the narrative is clear—his new environment has brought him a level of comfort, beauty, and validation that he never felt at home.
The boldness of his declaration has also sparked curiosity about where exactly Bobrisky has relocated to, as he has remained tight-lipped about his current location. In typical fashion, he prefers to tease fans with luxurious glimpses of his environment, posting snippets of lavish meals, chic apartments, and serene views. Wherever he is, it is evident that he feels freer, happier, and more in control.
As the news continues to ripple across social media, some of Bobrisky’s loyal fans are already expressing interest in joining him abroad. Others are flooding his comment section with questions about immigration tips and visa applications, turning his post into an unlikely forum for escape planning. Bobrisky, ever the queen of social media strategy, has promised to share more “relocation secrets” with fans in due time.
One thing is certain: love him or loathe him, Bobrisky knows how to keep the spotlight firmly on himself. With just a single post, he has not only shifted the conversation but also held up a mirror to Nigeria’s ongoing identity crisis—highlighting the thin line between patriotism and personal liberation. Whether viewed as a role model, a provocateur, or simply a master of social media theatrics, Bobrisky’s declaration is more than a personal update; it’s a reflection of a deeper national dialogue.
And while the debates rage on, Bobrisky continues to glow, unbothered, abroad—living what he calls his best life. For him, the message is simple: freedom looks good, feels better, and it’s worth crossing oceans for. Whether Nigeria will ever be a place where someone like Bobrisky can feel fully accepted remains to be seen. But for now, he’s made it clear—home is where he feels safe, celebrated, and fresh.