‘My Sophia, You Have Reined Me’: Sophia Momodu Shares Over-the-Top Love Message From a Lagos Admirer

Businesswoman and media personality Sophia Momodu has once again stirred up social media conversation after sharing a rather dramatic love message she reportedly received from a man she met in Lagos recently. The mother of one, known for her elegance, charisma, and unfiltered humor, left fans both amused and bewildered when she posted the screenshot of the admirer’s text on her social media page. The message, which read like something straight out of a poetic romance novel, has now gone viral for its exaggerated emotional tone and old-school romantic flair.

The admirer began his message with a line that instantly captured attention: “My Sophia, you have reined me by exposing me to the heaven of you. I constantly want to be in your presence. Are you busy today?” For most people, that kind of expression would sound like something from Shakespeare’s diary, but for Sophia, it was an immediate red flag. She humorously captioned the post with her thoughts, saying, “I always tell my friends I’m scared of Lagos men ’cos sending this to someone you just met a few hours ago is wild. ‘My Sophia’ ke? As how?? It’s giving love — no thanks!”

Her reaction, laced with sarcasm and laughter, quickly struck a chord with many Nigerian women who could relate to her experience. The phrase “It’s giving love — no thanks” trended on X (formerly Twitter) within hours of her post, as netizens flooded her comment section with laughter emojis and personal anecdotes about similar encounters. One user commented, “Lagos men will meet you once and start calling you ‘my everything.’ Relax, sir, I just told you my name!” Another wrote, “The way these men fall in love faster than fuel prices rise is insane.”

Sophia’s post didn’t just entertain—it sparked a full-blown online discussion about modern dating in Lagos, a city infamous for its fast-paced lifestyle and even faster-moving love interests. Many women in the comments agreed with her that some men in Lagos can be “too forward,” using intense declarations of love as icebreakers. Others, however, argued that the admirer’s message wasn’t that bad, describing it as “romantic” and “refreshing” in a generation where most men rely on dry messages like “Hey” or “Wyd.”

Still, the majority sided with Sophia’s interpretation, calling the admirer’s message “bombing pro max”—a slang phrase Nigerians use to describe excessive romantic persistence or attention. One fan hilariously summarized it by saying, “This is why I don’t share my number after networking events; some people think it’s a love audition.”

Known for her witty sense of humor and candid personality, Sophia handled the situation with grace and laughter, proving once again why she remains one of the most relatable personalities on Nigerian social media. Her ability to turn even the most awkward interactions into shareable, light-hearted moments has earned her a loyal following. Fans appreciate that she doesn’t take herself too seriously and often uses humor to highlight everyday situations women encounter.

What made the post even funnier was the admirer’s boldness. According to Sophia’s caption, she had met the man only a few hours before he sent the message. The speed with which he became “lovestruck” left many people amused and slightly concerned. As one X user put it, “This one has fallen in love faster than NIN verification fails.” Others suggested that the man might have been trying too hard to sound poetic but ended up sounding “like a Shakespearean Lagos boy in love.”

Interestingly, this isn’t the first time Sophia Momodu has shared her encounters with admirers. The businesswoman, who is also known as the mother of Imade Adeleke — Davido’s first daughter — has often spoken openly about her experiences navigating single motherhood, public attention, and relationships. She has cultivated a reputation for being both confident and outspoken, often using her platform to discuss topics like self-worth, boundaries, and the challenges women face in modern dating.

Her latest post is a reminder that fame doesn’t shield anyone from awkward romantic advances. Whether you’re a public figure or not, it seems Lagos’ unique brand of charm and persistence can reach anyone. What made the situation particularly funny to fans was how Sophia combined her sense of humor with her natural sarcasm to defuse what could have been an uncomfortable moment. Rather than ignoring or responding angrily, she turned it into a funny, teachable moment about how some men’s enthusiasm can border on theatrical.

Some fans even joked that Sophia should have replied to the admirer in equally dramatic fashion, with one suggesting: “You should’ve said, ‘My dearest stranger, your words have cast a spell upon my data plan.’” Another fan added, “This guy probably practiced that message in front of a mirror for hours.”

The message also reignited debates about how fast people express affection in today’s dating culture. While some still value old-fashioned romantic expressions, others find them overwhelming, especially when exchanged too early. In Sophia’s case, her followers agreed that it’s one thing to be romantic, but quite another to be “love bombing” someone you barely know. The term “love bombing” — which she referenced indirectly by calling it “bombing pro max” — refers to a manipulative tactic where someone showers another person with affection or attention too quickly in order to create an emotional attachment.

Despite the laughter and memes, many commended Sophia for how she handled the situation. Instead of turning it into a scandal or embarrassment, she simply laughed it off and shared it as content, showing that even awkward experiences can be met with humor. As one commenter wrote, “This is why we love Sophia. She turns chaos into comedy.”

By the end of the day, screenshots of her post had made their way across multiple platforms — from Instagram and X to TikTok, where users created short skits reenacting the admirer’s poetic message. Some content creators even mimicked the tone dramatically, pretending to send similar over-the-top messages to strangers, using captions like “When Lagos humidity and heartbreak mix.”

As the online frenzy continued, one thing became clear — Sophia Momodu has mastered the art of sharing her personal life in a way that feels authentic, entertaining, and real. Whether she’s talking about motherhood, fashion, or unexpected admirers, she consistently finds a way to connect with people.

In a city like Lagos, where romance often moves faster than traffic, her story serves as both comic relief and subtle caution. Sometimes, love might just need to slow down — or at least wait until after the first date before sending a message that sounds like it was written in a 19th-century love letter

For now, fans continue to quote and remix the admirer’s line, “My Sophia, you have reined me by exposing me to the heaven of you,” turning it into one of the funniest and most viral phrases of the week. As one witty user concluded, “If this is how Lagos men are starting 2025, we’re in for a wild ride.”