Porsha Williams Opens Up on Dating Both a Man and a Woman After Divorce from Simon Guobadia

Reality TV star Porsha Williams is turning heads once again — this time for her refreshingly candid revelation about her love life after her divorce from Nigerian-born entrepreneur Simon Guobadia.

Speaking at CultureCon 2025, in a video shared by Culture Unfiltered on Instagram, the Real Housewives of Atlanta icon told the audience she’s currently dating both a man and a woman, sparking cheers, laughter, and a flood of online reactions.

“I’ve narrowed it down to two people — he is nice, and she is nice,” Williams said with a playful grin, as the crowd erupted. Her openness about exploring love beyond traditional boundaries marked a bold new chapter for the 44-year-old star, who has been redefining herself since finalizing her divorce in June 2025.

Porsha went on to explain that she’s been intentional about choosing “normal people” this time — a pointed remark many fans interpreted as subtle shade at her ex-husband. Without naming names, she reflected on her past relationships, describing patterns of love bombing and manipulation, hinting at emotional control that once clouded her judgment.

“The people I’m talking to now are different,” she shared. “They challenge me, they ask questions, and they don’t let me walk over them. I’m not used to that, so I’m learning to open up and soften a bit. If I want something different, I have to be different.”

Her comments struck a chord online, with fans praising her vulnerability and growth. One X user wrote, “Porsha’s glow-up era isn’t just physical — it’s emotional maturity in full display.” Another added, “After Simon, I love that she’s finally dating for peace, not for status.”

The revelation comes months after a whirlwind divorce saga that played out both in court and online. Porsha and Simon, who married in November 2021 after just one month of dating, split amid growing tension over their prenuptial agreement and Simon’s legal troubles. Earlier this year, Guobadia was deported to Nigeria after spending time in an ICE detention facility, effectively closing a controversial chapter in their short-lived union.

Now, with her career thriving and her confidence renewed, Porsha seems ready to embrace love on her own terms — free from societal expectations and past heartbreak. Whether her new relationships lead to something lasting or simply mark a period of rediscovery, one thing is clear: Porsha Williams is fully in her self-love era, and the world is watching every move.