
Nigerian singer and one-half of the legendary PSquare duo, Peter Okoye, popularly known as Mr. P, has found himself at the center of a viral drama after a waitress in the United States reportedly slid into his DM to berate him for what she called a “small tip.” The incident, which has set social media ablaze, unfolded after the artist had dinner at a U.S. restaurant, allegedly spending over a thousand dollars but tipping only sixty. The waitress, who apparently felt entitled to a bigger gratuity, took her frustrations straight to the star’s inbox — and Peter’s reaction has since become the talk of the internet.
In his typical unfiltered manner, Peter Okoye didn’t hold back. Taking to his Instagram story late Friday night, the singer blasted what he described as the “entitlement mentality” of certain people abroad, particularly those who think celebrities owe them extra generosity simply because of fame. “Una dey craze for this Yankee, aswear,” Peter wrote in a fiery response that has now gone viral. “Sometimes eh, dis oyinbos na dem no get sense! Ridiculous.” His comment, a mix of Nigerian street slang and raw frustration, captured the attention of fans across continents who found the incident both hilarious and thought-provoking.
According to a screenshot circulating online, the waitress reportedly sent a long message to Peter, complaining that he had enjoyed premium service and a luxurious meal but rewarded her effort with what she called a “measly” sixty-dollar tip. “How you come eat, come in hella late and chill at a restaurant. Your bill was a thousand dollars and you leave sixty dollars tip?” the message read. The waitress went on to express her annoyance, concluding with a dig at Peter’s nationality: “No wonder people hate y’all.” That last line seemed to be the breaking point for the singer, who didn’t hesitate to clap back.
Peter Okoye, who is known for his outspoken personality both on and off social media, shared his side of the story in disbelief. He questioned why anyone would feel entitled to dictate how much another person should give as a tip, especially when the service charge and the actual payment had already been made. “Imagine someone sliding into your DM because of tip,” he ranted. “You go work, do your job, I pay my bill, and you still dey expect me to pay your rent join? Una dey craze for this Yankee!” His words struck a nerve among fans, igniting a heated debate about tipping culture and respect for personal choices.
Across social media platforms, Nigerians and Africans at large have rallied behind the singer, with many arguing that tipping is voluntary, not compulsory. Several fans pointed out that the Western culture of tipping heavily is often misunderstood by foreigners who are not accustomed to the same practice back home. “$60 on a $1,000 bill is more than enough,” one Twitter user wrote. “She should be grateful and move on. Nobody owes her a living.” Another commented, “They think because he’s a celebrity, he must throw money around. They don’t know how hard people hustle to make that money.”
However, a few others, especially those familiar with American tipping customs, argued that the waitress’s frustration may have been justified, given that the standard tip in the U.S. is typically between 15% and 20% of the total bill. In Peter’s case, that would amount to around $150 to $200. Still, most agreed that the waitress’s decision to confront him directly through a private message was unprofessional and unnecessary. “There’s a way to express disappointment, but going into someone’s DM to insult them crosses the line,” one Instagram user noted. “That’s harassment, not customer service.”
For Peter Okoye, this incident seems to have touched a deeper nerve about how African celebrities are often treated abroad. He expressed his irritation not just at the waitress, but at the general assumption that African stars are either stingy or obligated to overspend to prove themselves. “I no go lie, this entitlement don too much,” he said. “Because we be African, una think say we no fit talk abi? If I no tip at all nko? Una go call police?” His outburst reflects a broader frustration shared by many public figures who feel constantly scrutinized for how they spend their money.
The saga has since become one of the most talked-about topics on Nigerian entertainment blogs and forums, with many turning it into memes and trending hashtags like #YankeeEntitlement and #MrPSpeaksFacts. Some fans even joked that the waitress should consider herself lucky to have received $60 at all, given that Peter could have easily walked away without tipping. Others admired his courage to speak his mind, noting that many celebrities would have chosen to ignore the incident entirely to avoid backlash.
Peter Okoye, who has spent the past few months performing across North America on tour, is no stranger to online controversies. From addressing social issues to clapping back at critics, the singer has built a reputation for being unapologetically vocal. His latest post fits right into that mold, reminding fans that he won’t hesitate to defend himself when provoked. “I’m human before celebrity,” he wrote in another follow-up story. “Respect is mutual. Don’t expect me to act a certain way because of who I am. I work hard for my money like everyone else.”
Meanwhile, reactions from the U.S. audience have been mixed. While some Americans agreed that the waitress’s message was out of line, others defended the cultural expectation of tipping generously. “He’s visiting our country, he should know how things work here,” one user commented on X (formerly Twitter). “If you can afford a $1,000 meal, you can afford a proper tip.” But fans from Nigeria quickly shot back, saying the focus should be on professionalism and courtesy, not entitlement.
As the drama continues to trend, Peter’s bold remark — “Una dey craze for this Yankee, aswear” — has taken on a life of its own, becoming a viral catchphrase across Nigerian social media. Memes and short skits have already started circulating, with content creators re-enacting the incident in comedic fashion. For many, it’s not just about the tip anymore, but about standing up to double standards and unnecessary expectations placed on African entertainers.
Whether or not the waitress regrets her outburst remains unclear, but one thing is certain — Peter Okoye’s fiery clapback has reminded everyone that respect cuts both ways. In an age where celebrities are constantly monitored, judged, and sometimes provoked for trivial reasons, his reaction stands as a loud message to those who mistake fame for servitude. As one fan succinctly put it on Instagram, “Next time, just say thank you and move on. Don’t let $60 cost you global embarrassment.”
In the end, the exchange has done more than spark a conversation about tipping — it has reignited a global debate on respect, boundaries, and the entitlement culture that often plagues modern society. Whether you side with the waitress or with Mr. P, one thing’s for sure: the singer’s now-iconic outburst will be remembered for a long time as a moment when a Nigerian star boldly told the Western world, “Una dey craze for this Yankee, aswear.”