“You Obviously No Well” — DJ Big N Calls Out Follower Who Begged ₦40K to Patronize Runs Girl Despite Complaining of Hunger

The social media space was thrown into laughter and disbelief after Nigerian disc jockey, DJ Big N, shared a rather bizarre encounter with a follower who begged him for ₦40,000, not for food, medical bills, or school fees, but to hire the services of a commercial sex worker. The exchange, which quickly went viral, has since sparked discussions on misplaced priorities, youthful recklessness, and the culture of begging for money online without shame. DJ Big N, who is known for his witty responses and unfiltered takes on social media, could not help but expose the ridiculousness of the request, delivering his now-famous punchline, “You obviously no well,” a phrase that has since become the highlight of the incident.

It all began when the follower, identified as “saint Accept,” slid into the DJ’s direct messages with an unusual plea. Instead of seeking support for necessities like food or transport, the young man complained that he was overwhelmed by sexual desire and wanted to “carry olosho” (slang for runs girl or sex worker). He claimed the woman he had his eyes on demanded ₦40,000, and without hesitation, he shamelessly begged DJ Big N to fund his escapade. The message, written in casual Pidgin English, read: “Egbon abeg help me, konji wan kee me, I wan carry olosho nah ₦40k she wan collect.”

Amused and shocked, DJ Big N responded playfully at first, asking the young man to drop his account details, almost as though he would indulge him. “Send me your aza. Just for being real. I go run am for you. But pls use condom,” he wrote, leaving the follower excited and thankful. At that point, the young man was so convinced he had secured his funding that he dropped his bank details without hesitation, expressing gratitude repeatedly. But unknown to him, DJ Big N had no intentions of sponsoring such frivolity. The DJ, unable to believe the boldness of the request, decided to screenshot the conversation, humorously blurring the follower’s name before posting it for his fans to see.

In his caption, DJ Big N questioned where such a mentality comes from, asking rhetorically, “And where do I know you from anyway?” His disbelief mirrored that of thousands of Nigerians who saw the post and could not fathom how someone could prioritize paying for a night with a sex worker over basic survival needs. The conversation took an even more ironic turn when the same follower later returned to beg for money to buy food after initially focusing on hiring a runs girl. “Boss, please help me add money for food please, for God’s sake boss,” he wrote. It was this that finally made DJ Big N drop the bombshell line, “Ahhh now… You obviously no well… You never chop, you dey find olosho.”

The blunt statement quickly resonated with many online, who hailed DJ Big N for using humor to highlight the misplaced priorities of today’s youth. For many, the incident was a comic relief but also a sad reflection of how some young Nigerians misuse the power of social media to beg for money instead of seeking productive opportunities. The viral exchange has since sparked a wave of memes, jokes, and discussions across platforms, with “You obviously no well” becoming a catchphrase used to mock unserious requests.

Fans flooded DJ Big N’s comment section with mixed reactions. While some commended him for exposing the shamelessness of the request, others expressed concern about how normalized online begging has become. One user wrote, “Imagine begging for olosho money when you haven’t even eaten, priorities zero.” Another added, “This generation needs to reset. How can food be secondary to runs girl?” A few others laughed it off, describing the entire situation as a reminder that many people will go to any length to satisfy fleeting desires, even at the cost of dignity.

The issue of online begging has long been a controversial topic in Nigeria, with celebrities frequently bombarded by requests for money ranging from reasonable to outright absurd. From fans asking for school fees to those begging for iPhones, sneakers, or even money to buy fuel for a night out, public figures are often left astonished at the boldness of some of these messages. DJ Big N’s experience with this particular follower, however, takes the cake as one of the most outlandish.

Beyond the laughter, some social commentators have used the incident to discuss deeper societal issues. They argue that the exchange exposes the growing culture of entitlement among youths who believe celebrities are obligated to fund their lifestyles. Others pointed out that it reflects how economic hardship and unemployment push some individuals into desperation, although in this case, the desperation seemed misplaced. As one commentator put it, “If you can shamelessly beg for ₦40k to carry olosho, you can also shamelessly beg for money to start a business, learn a skill, or even buy food. The problem is not poverty but priorities.”

DJ Big N himself has not issued further statements beyond the hilarious post, but by sharing the chat, he not only entertained his fans but also inadvertently sparked a debate about values and responsibility. His signature line, “You obviously no well,” has already transcended the incident, being adopted in various contexts to call out unreasonable behavior both online and offline.

The story also sheds light on the role of celebrities in shaping conversations on social media. While some stars might ignore such requests, DJ Big N chose to highlight it publicly, turning a private DM into a public lesson disguised as comedy. His decision to blur the follower’s name showed some restraint, ensuring the individual was not directly shamed, while still allowing the wider public to draw lessons from the bizarre encounter.

In an age where social media often blurs the lines between public and private lives, moments like this stand out as both entertaining and thought-provoking. They remind society of the strange realities of the digital era, where anonymity and access embolden people to make requests they might never dare to in real life. It is also a reflection of how humor continues to serve as a tool for confronting uncomfortable truths in Nigerian society.

For DJ Big N, the incident has once again solidified his reputation as a no-nonsense personality who tells it as it is. His sharp, witty, and humorous clapback has ensured that this exchange will not be forgotten in a hurry. For the rest of the online community, the lesson is clear: before sliding into a celebrity’s DM with a request, think twice about whether it makes sense. Otherwise, you may just find yourself at the receiving end of a viral “You obviously no well.”